{"id":6707,"date":"2014-01-10T12:08:21","date_gmt":"2014-01-10T04:08:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/?p=6707"},"modified":"2014-01-10T12:08:21","modified_gmt":"2014-01-10T04:08:21","slug":"culturally-in-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/culturally-in-love\/","title":{"rendered":"Culturally in love"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/story211.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-6709\" style=\"padding-right: 20px;\" title=\"story2#1\" src=\"http:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/story211-200x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"200\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/story211-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/story211-116x175.jpg 116w, https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/story211.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>(This is the part two of the muhibbah story we featured in &#8220;Marriage in Malaysia&#8221;. To read the\u00a0 article, please go to\u00a0 <a title=\"Marriage made in Malaysia\" href=\"http:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/marriage-made-in-malaysia\/\">http:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/marriage-made-in-malaysia\/<\/a>)<\/p>\n<p>He loves to take pictures. His specialty is in the cultural spots and artifacts. Every shot, every frame \u2013 a portrait of a living story. Language and skin colour is no barrier for a seasoned photographer like him. It actually motivates him to bring out the diversity and vibrancy etched in his subjects.<\/p>\n<p>And it shows in his diversity. His ability to speak fluent Bahasa Indonesia and enunciate Kelantanese accented Bahasa Malaysia belies the fact that Malay is not even his first language, at home or school!<\/p>\n<p>David Lok Weng Sung, 53, is a photographer in the advertising industry. David, as he prefers to be called, is widely known even outside the advertising loop.<\/p>\n<p>Gazing at his work at first glance, one gets the impression its commonplace and randomly ordinary. Yet look a little deeper, one sees a luminous cultural and ethnic heritage, evincing a profound cultural story behind it.<\/p>\n<p>The truth is, this self-confessed kampong boy at heart didn\u2019t get his cultural instinct overnight. \u201cI began to open my mind and heart to my environment step by step, learning from the different cultures that surrounded me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>His familiarity with the Malay culture and language didn\u2019t come at a snap either. It wasn\u2019t just from the schooling environment that he grew up in. It was moulded by his three life phases, going through much trial and error in his colour-filled life.<\/p>\n<p>Born and bred in Chinese-majority Seremban, David did his elementary education in the now defunct English-medium primary school system. Schooling years was multicultural; Chinese, Malays and Indians mixing side by side each other without misgiving. It was the first milieu that afforded him his understanding of other cultures. However it was still an English speaking environment.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt was around 1969 that the emphasis on Malay started taking place. I was already in Standard Three then. Though we had BM classes, it was still English everyday for us then.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Growing up in a Cantonese speaking home and English-fused schooling surrounding, David had little interaction in Malay. That change when he was 18 years old, the year he went to Singapore for studies after his secondary school graduation. The irony was he picked up Malay in the Chinese-majority city state.<\/p>\n<p>David was a construction site manager then. Leading a group of Malay workers, \u201cI found myself in many an awkward situation as my Malay was smattering and scant,\u201d he recalls.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/story221.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-6710\" style=\"padding-right: 20px;\" title=\"story2#2\" src=\"http:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/story221-226x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"226\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/story221-226x300.jpg 226w, https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/story221-773x1024.jpg 773w, https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/story221-132x175.jpg 132w, https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/story221.jpg 1938w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 226px) 100vw, 226px\" \/><\/a>\u201cMany times, they would tell me \u2018that\u2019s not how the Malay syntax and words were pronounced\u2019. Apparently what I learnt in school was stilted and foreign to them (laughs)! I began to learn Malay from them, word by word, through meals and interactions. That was my first real contact with the Malay culture.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDue to my poor SPM results in Malay (I failed actually), I had to take after-work Malay classes in order to really learn the language. Thank goodness for my Malay co-workers, through their willingness to teach me and accept me into their circle of friends, I was able to brush up my Malay and actually learned more about their culture.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>After staying in Singapore for more than a year, David was able to speak Malay fluently. Finding himself in Indonesia not long after that, he too mastered and loved Bahasa Indonesia. It was at the work place that he also began to learn Mandarin, a language as alien to him as BM!<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe situation then was a hodgepodge of languages; when I spoke to my boss, it was in English. With the Indonesian workers it was Bahasa Indonesia, with the expatriate Taiwanese engineers it was Mandarin. I got my languages so mixed up that there was once when I flew home for reunions, some family members met me and shouted Cantonese to me. I was actually tongue twisted for answer; my brain couldn\u2019t utter a single Cantonese in return! (laughs)\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Staying in Indonesia for three years, David began to acquaint himself in the local culture. It\u2019s here too he began to indulge in photography. From a hobby, it became his lifeblood. In 1986, he decided to take the plunge into photography in the advertising line, full time.<\/p>\n<p>As he was helping out in the publication of the pictorial essay titled \u201cSpirit of Wood -The Art of Malay Woodcarving\u201d, he spent six years travelling around the Malay belt states of Kedah, Kelantan and Terengganu, exploring and immersing himself in the Malay carvers\u2019 community and cultural heritage. This was where he grew to love the Malay culture, especially the down-to-earth and rustic Kelantanese culture and language.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/story23.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-6711\" style=\"padding-right: 20px;\" title=\"story2#3\" src=\"http:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/story23-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/story23-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/story23-131x175.jpg 131w, https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/story23.jpg 510w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/a>David relates that in his encounters, the most touching and memorable moments was spent with the famous Malay carver Nik Rashidin. \u201cMy frequent working visits to the carver\u2019s place led to many sessions of frank conversations that build us into bosom buddies. From Nik Rashidin, I learnt much about beauty of the Malay culture.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOne of the things that I acquired from him was the appreciation for such simple things like lotus designs motifs that was found on traditional Malay house mosques in the rural areas.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI recalled once, when Nik was having a talk with students of a local arts college, the students broke down in tears after feeling moved by the beauty of the cultures. The beauty of the cultures really did touched peoples\u2019 hearts regardless of language barriers. They are able to experience the carver\u2019s persistency and sacrifices.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>David\u2019s personal experience led him to believe that one\u2019s ethnicity and language should not be a barrier for people to mingle together. \u201cEvery one of us, old and young, rich or poor, are born of the same race, the human race. It\u2019s incumbent that we should not let our physical differences divide us.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAs we drop our preconceptions towards each other and be humbled to learn from each other, that\u2019s when we can enter into true and mutual understanding of each other.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cImagine if a mamak store sells only teh tarik and roti canai and nothing else, wouldn\u2019t it be boring? Let\u2019s look at the Chinese that came to Malaysia before independence. We used to identify ourselves as Hokkiens, Cantonese, Hakkas and Teochews; but now we live as one community.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>It isn\u2019t just mere talk, David has strived to remove every racial barrier from his life. \u201cIn the advertising industry there are no racial baggage, there are no extremes. If one is sincere and truthful we will find and gain many friends.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cFrom where I used to be, it\u2019s a competitive world in the advertising industry. Here there is no room for racial division. What counts is your abilities; every one\u2019s focus on producing their best to complete their masterpieces.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>While chatting about his work, David eventually touched on his friendship with the renowned advertising guru and movie director, the late Yasmin Ahmad. \u201cI had known her since 1993. Her wittiness, cheerfulness, humanity and gender beliefs are truly unique and embracing. It is still so refreshing remembering her.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThere was once she was frantically sending SMSes to all her friends, asking us to donate RM 7,000 to help a makcik in Terengganu purchase a meat grinder to produce lekor. It was to enable her to be financially independent. In a matter of days we managed to help collect that amount for her!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThere seldom were things that were taboo for us to talk about. Our race didn\u2019t lead to any ill-feelings between us. In her eyes, when we see a person what we see is who the person is, nothing more nothing less. She would often ask \u2018Why let our skin colour segregate us?\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cFor me, culture and language are the excellent means for the races to know each other better. Spoken language has a way of resolving unnecessary misunderstandings. If we were to translate what we say into writing, there may be room for mistranslation and misunderstanding.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOf course an individual\u2019s cognition and ability to discern is important. If someone\u2019s speech were intentionally misinterpreted, if we who can think through and discern rationally, we will be able to avoid being misled.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Sounds like gems of speeches for the gallery, but David has live through the personal experiences himself. For this reporter, the comment he made regarding national integration left an indelible impression. \u201cNational integration doesn\u2019t come overnight; it most assuredly doesn\u2019t happen just because we celebrate Merdeka together.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cEvery day, every minute is a unique moment for every one. We shouldn\u2019t be feeling afraid; if fear abounds there\u2019s no space for interaction. Every one of us needs a heart to heart encounter, with sincerity and cordiality to build mutual friendship.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>(This is the part two of the muhibbah story we featured in &#8220;Marriage in Malaysia&#8221;. To read the\u00a0 article, please go to\u00a0 http:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/marriage-made-in-malaysia\/) He loves to take pictures. His specialty is in the cultural spots and artifacts. Every shot, every frame \u2013 a portrait of a living story. 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