{"id":21145,"date":"2021-05-07T13:11:09","date_gmt":"2021-05-07T05:11:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/?p=21145"},"modified":"2021-05-07T13:36:08","modified_gmt":"2021-05-07T05:36:08","slug":"we-must-not-fail-our-children-4-steps-to-makeschoolsasaferplace","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/we-must-not-fail-our-children-4-steps-to-makeschoolsasaferplace\/","title":{"rendered":"We must not fail our children! 4 steps to #MakeSchoolsASaferPlace"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong><em>Media statement by ADUN for Kampung Tunku, Lim Yi Wei on 7 May 2021:<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/C75E9CF3-DB42-460D-82B3-AA169B014ED5-1024x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-21170\" width=\"600\" height=\"600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/C75E9CF3-DB42-460D-82B3-AA169B014ED5-1024x1024.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/C75E9CF3-DB42-460D-82B3-AA169B014ED5-300x300.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/C75E9CF3-DB42-460D-82B3-AA169B014ED5-150x150.jpeg 150w, https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/C75E9CF3-DB42-460D-82B3-AA169B014ED5-768x768.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/C75E9CF3-DB42-460D-82B3-AA169B014ED5-90x90.jpeg 90w, https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/C75E9CF3-DB42-460D-82B3-AA169B014ED5-465x465.jpeg 465w, https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/C75E9CF3-DB42-460D-82B3-AA169B014ED5-960x960.jpeg 960w, https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/C75E9CF3-DB42-460D-82B3-AA169B014ED5.jpeg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n&nbsp;\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"has-text-align-center wp-block-heading\">Are we failing our children?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n&nbsp;\n\n\n\n<p>For Malaysian children and youth, living with Covid-19 has been chaotic. Schools closed, opened, and closed again due to rising case numbers. As students prepare to return to online learning, the 150,000 laptops for B40 students promised by the Finance Minister have yet to be seen.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Over the past month, students have revealed experiences of sexual harassment in school. Period spot checks, unwanted touch, rape jokes affected girls; boys were not exempt from groping and lewd remarks. After 17-year-old Ain Husniza Saiful Nizam shared on Tiktok about her teacher\u2019s rape joke (ironically in a class discussing sexual harassment), she received rape threats from a classmate and was accused of being a \u201ctroubled\u201d student and autistic.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>On Facebook,&nbsp;<em>Malaysiakini<\/em>\u2019s interview with Ain and her father were flooded with lewd comments on her body. Some said that she deserved the threats. Netizens found out that&nbsp;<a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/LimYiWei4MY\/status\/1387005231913861122\" target=\"_blank\">some of the commenters were teachers<\/a>; one was a motivational counsellor that traveled between secondary schools.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n&nbsp;\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Sexual harassment and rape are crimes, not joking material<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n&nbsp;\n\n\n\n<p>Responses from figures in authority have been disappointing.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n&nbsp;\n\n\n\n<p>1.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;When confronted about period spot checks, Education Minister Radzi Jidin stated that MOE asked schools if this happened, and schools said no.&nbsp;<em>Case closed.<\/em>&nbsp;Pressed further, he <a href=\"https:\/\/www.malaysiakini.com\/news\/572301\">challenged the public to name the schools<\/a>. This week,&nbsp;<em>Malaysiakini<\/em>&nbsp;submitted a list of at least 15 schools. Ball\u2019s now in your court, minister.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n&nbsp;\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/93A94DB3-4243-4B31-86D4-37BDEEF3D222-1024x902.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-21149\" width=\"600\" height=\"528\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/93A94DB3-4243-4B31-86D4-37BDEEF3D222-1024x902.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/93A94DB3-4243-4B31-86D4-37BDEEF3D222-300x264.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/93A94DB3-4243-4B31-86D4-37BDEEF3D222-768x676.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/93A94DB3-4243-4B31-86D4-37BDEEF3D222-465x410.jpeg 465w, https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/93A94DB3-4243-4B31-86D4-37BDEEF3D222-960x845.jpeg 960w, https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/93A94DB3-4243-4B31-86D4-37BDEEF3D222.jpeg 1098w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><figcaption><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.malaysiakini.com\/news\/573234\">Malaysiakini<\/a> article screenshot on Education Minister handed list of alleged schools involved in period spot checks. <\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n&nbsp;\n\n\n\n<p>2.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Women, Children and Community Development Minister Rina Harun said she would \u201c<em>pandang serius<\/em>\u201d into this issue. Her deputy Siti Zailah has been silent.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n&nbsp;\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/3C30AA5A-C48E-4C38-A9D8-D322335F7052-1024x742.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-21150\" width=\"600\" height=\"435\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/3C30AA5A-C48E-4C38-A9D8-D322335F7052-1024x742.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/3C30AA5A-C48E-4C38-A9D8-D322335F7052-300x217.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/3C30AA5A-C48E-4C38-A9D8-D322335F7052-768x556.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/3C30AA5A-C48E-4C38-A9D8-D322335F7052-465x337.jpeg 465w, https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/3C30AA5A-C48E-4C38-A9D8-D322335F7052-960x695.jpeg 960w, https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/3C30AA5A-C48E-4C38-A9D8-D322335F7052.jpeg 1302w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><figcaption><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.thesundaily.my\/home\/kpwkm-views-period-spot-check-seriously-will-investigate-rina-XI7785536\">The Sun Daily<\/a> article screenshot on Rina Harun\u2019s statement. <\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n&nbsp;\n\n\n\n<p>3.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;The newly installed Inspector-General of Police (IGP) was quoted at a press conference describing the rape threat against Ain as a \u201cpossible joke\u201d by her classmate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n&nbsp;\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/D84DCE25-925A-41A0-9FE0-36E62550C424-1024x905.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-21151\" width=\"600\" height=\"529\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/D84DCE25-925A-41A0-9FE0-36E62550C424-1024x905.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/D84DCE25-925A-41A0-9FE0-36E62550C424-300x265.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/D84DCE25-925A-41A0-9FE0-36E62550C424-768x679.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/D84DCE25-925A-41A0-9FE0-36E62550C424-465x411.jpeg 465w, https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/D84DCE25-925A-41A0-9FE0-36E62550C424-960x848.jpeg 960w, https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/D84DCE25-925A-41A0-9FE0-36E62550C424.jpeg 1110w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><figcaption><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.malaysiakini.com\/news\/572276\">Malaysiakini <\/a>article screenshot on Datuk Acryl Sani\u2019s comments. <\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n&nbsp;\n\n\n\n<p>4.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;In an Astro Awani interview, the Secretary-General of the National Union of the Teaching Profession (NUTP) point-blank denied students&#8217; sexual harassment complaints and rape culture in schools. Instead of addressing the issue, he badgered the moderators on \u201cfacts and data\u201d to prove whether the problem is occurring nationwide.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">\u201cHow is this a widespread problem? Where&#8217;s the data, how many schools are we talking about?\u201d says Harry Tan, Sec-Gen of NUTP when asked by <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/melisa_idris?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">@melisa_idris<\/a> &amp; <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/SharaadKuttan?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">@sharaadkuttan<\/a> if the Teachers&#8217; Union is concerned abt abuse allegations in schools. <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/ConsiderThis?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#ConsiderThis<\/a> at <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/6oMihRqLO5\">https:\/\/t.co\/6oMihRqLO5<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/0vYnThzOmY\">pic.twitter.com\/0vYnThzOmY<\/a><\/p>\u2014 \ud83c\uddf2\ud83c\uddfeAstro AWANI\ud83c\uddf2\ud83c\uddfe (@501Awani) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/501Awani\/status\/1389968021951696897?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">May 5, 2021<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<p><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Have you met a child rape victim? I have. She was 10 when she was first raped by her father \u2013 who then prostituted her to his friends for the next 3 years. She was shorter than me and had not matured physically. While she interacted with her younger siblings with the playfulness of an everyday 13-year-old, she was understandably distrustful of strangers. The trauma she experienced will take some time to unpack. Not a laughing matter at all.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n&nbsp;\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>#MakeSchoolASaferPlace<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n&nbsp;\n\n\n\n<p>As a child of 2 retired teachers, working with families in my current capacity, the issue of child safety in schools is one close to my heart. One child sexually harassed in school is one too many. Instead of staying silent (Rina Harun, Siti Zailah) or being defensive (see: Education Minister, NUTP Sec-Gen), authorities could take simple yet powerful actions such as:&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n&nbsp;\n\n\n\n<p><strong>1.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Instituting a zero-tolerance policy towards sexual harassment by establishing penalties against improper touch and conduct<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>2.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Immediately prohibiting period spot checks in schools via a nationwide circular<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>3.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Committing to training school counsellors and admin in tackling sexual harassment<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>4.<\/strong>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<strong>Committing not to sweep things under the carpet and that transferring teachers is not an acceptable option if there is evidence the teacher is guilty.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n&nbsp;\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/Lim_Yi_Wei_April_2020-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-19833\" width=\"600\" height=\"600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/Lim_Yi_Wei_April_2020-1.jpg 960w, https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/Lim_Yi_Wei_April_2020-1-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/Lim_Yi_Wei_April_2020-1-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/Lim_Yi_Wei_April_2020-1-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/Lim_Yi_Wei_April_2020-1-90x90.jpg 90w, https:\/\/www.therocket.com.my\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/Lim_Yi_Wei_April_2020-1-465x465.jpg 465w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><figcaption><em>ADUN for Kampung Tunku, Lim Yi Wei. <\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n&nbsp;\n\n\n\n<p>We cannot simply say \u201cthis is how it was in my time\u201d when sexual harassment clearly impacts our children negatively even up to adulthood. This article barely touches the iceberg, as online child sexual abuse and exploitation (OCSEA) emerges as a real risk to children who grew up with the internet. <\/p>\n\n\n\n&nbsp;\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"has-text-align-center wp-block-heading\">If we fail to set up a supportive environment when children come to us with complaints, then we fail our children.<\/h4>\n\n\n\n&nbsp;\n\n\n\n<p>Perhaps the very least we can do is really listen to the children and support them to make school a safer place.&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Media statement by ADUN for Kampung Tunku, Lim Yi Wei on 7 May 2021: &nbsp; Are we failing our children? &nbsp; For Malaysian children and youth, living with Covid-19 has been chaotic. Schools closed, opened, and closed again due to rising case numbers. 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